Monday, October 13, 2008

The Future Is Where It's At

This night was hilarious. Over dessert, we had the most funniest (redundancy is necessary) conversation ever. It was basically discussing the future wife of a close friend, and it was unbelievable of what came up. It first started out about how the wife should know how to cook. Then, it escalated into a ridiculous conversation about extreme muscles, bear wrestling, 7foot plus height, and a weird accent. Haha. It was incredibly hilarious. So if anyone sees or knows a lady that fit those requirements, introduce me to her so I can point her to my friend's direction. LOL!

This conversation also got me started to think about my own future. Even in school, my friends and I had these outrageous talks about our future lives and how we hope they would turn out. We would all eventually live in the same neighborhood, make our kids be friends, having block parties, matchmaking, arranged marriages (Michelle Liu's future daughter has dibs on my future son and JBang's future son has dibs on my future daughter, by the way. rofls!) It's fun talking about these things.

My future, the way I planned it to be, would be something like this:
During college and graduate school, I would be involved with an internship at a laboratory as a forensic scientist and eventually become an official one. I would have moved out of my parents' apartment. I would have my own apartment, with or without a roommate. I don't mind either way, but she has to be someone I trust and can tolerate. Lol. I probably will know how to cook by then, after many attempts and experiences. I will have a dog, either a big one or a medium one, but I will definitely have my own doggy. And I will have my own car, blue or a navy blue one.

I want to move out of my parents' house as soon as I can. When I can make enough to sustain myself, I will move out. They can visit as much as they want, but I like the fact that I can do whatever I want to. I can have my friends over as long as I like. They can crash at my place because I would have extra bedrooms that act like guestrooms and the sofa can fold out to be a bed as well. I would able to decorate my flat however I want to. I can't wait to have my own place.

Uhh, truthfully, I never had much thoughts about my future husband. I want to be married in my mid-twenties. Haha. But I usually skip to the children part. Rofls. But some things I have assumed my husband will be like are having the ability to cook, good personality, taller than me (even if it's only a couple of inches), funny/has a sense of humor/can make me laugh, somewhat good/average looking (doesn't have to be eye candy haha), cleans/picks up after himself, and CHRISTIAN, of course. Oh, and preferably older. Everything else can be judged later. xD

I would have 2 kids(or more haha). My dad and my uncle are twins, so twins run in my family. I want to have twins, rofls. Preferably one boy and one girl, or my firstborn to be a boy and then the second child to be a girl. Maybe it's because I always wanted an older brother but I love the whole idea of the older brother being protective of the younger sister. But overall, any gender, in any order is good really. I would love them just the same. I don't want 3 kids, though. I don't want my middle child to suffer from the middle child complex. (As you can see, I have put much thought into this. Haha.)

My dream house would be a nice big-ish house with a lawn, backyard, 2+ bathrooms (haha!), driveway, 3-5 bedrooms (some are used as guestrooms probably), and large living room. Or it would a be 2-story apartment, which would probably be dubbed as a penthouse. LOL. Like those houses within an apartment building. It would be the best hangout house for just chilling or for fellowship. Expensive, but it's my dream, so I can dream whatever I want to dream. Haha.

So, that's what I want my future to be. But I know it would not probably end up exactly the same. I put more thought into it than I thought. Rofls.

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